I have a lot of friends who are ENFJs. One is an ENFJ 3w2 and is wildly successful. The other is an ENFJ 1w2. So, this article is a bit more personal to me.
If you want to know more about the ENFJ 1w2, you’ve come to the right place. This article discusses the ENFJ 1w2 and what you can expect of them.
So, if you’re ready, let’s go!
Who is the ENFJ 1w2?
ENFJ 1w2s are perfectionists with a touch of love. They want to do what’s right and do so with love.
Because they are also feelers, they genuinely can understand people’s feelings and emotions. Regardless, though, ENFJ 1w2s are not people-pleasers. They’ll state their decisions clearly but tactfully in most situations.
The presence of their wing makes them more generous and kind. Type 1 is not the most common type for ENFJs. However, it’s clearly not impossible. Unlike typical ENFJs, ENFJ 1w2s are less burdened with leadership and are more concerned about perfection and being detailed.
ENFJ 1w2s are more likely to be assertive than turbulent.
What is the Core Desire of the ENFJ 1w2?
The core desire of the ENFJ 1w2 is to do the right thing. That’s been their motto since forever. To achieve this, they try to do everything perfectly. If you’re perfect, you’ll do the right thing, right?
What is the Core Fear of the ENFJ 1w2?
The core fear of the ENFJ 1w2 is to be evil or be seen as evil/ethically immoral. This does not mean they are religious. It just means that they hold themselves to high standards.
How the 1w2 Changes the Natural Tendencies of the ENFJ
1. Higher Values With Flexibility
ENFJs have a lot of flexibility. That’s one reason why they often make good leaders. For ENFJ 1w2s, things are a bit different. While they are adaptable, they also have values. Thus, an ENFJ 1w2 is generally more rigid than typical ENFJs.
They tend to care more about their boundaries and ideals a lot more. In a way, this is a good thing. ENFJ 1w2s know exactly who they are and stick to their principles.
2. More Disciplined
ENFJ 1w2s are disciplined people. Because of their judging function, they usually stick to their plans. ENFJ 1w2s take this to another level.
One reason why they are so disciplined is because type 1 sees it as the best way to meet their targets. This, combined with type 2’s need to be generous with their time, makes self-discipline so important to the ENFJ 1w2.
3. More Generous
ENFJs are often nicknamed the protagonists. This is because of their ability to do and say the right things. This makes them more popular among their peers. ENFJ 1w2s might even be more popular.
This is because their wing is genuinely interested in helping others. Thus, people often see ENFJ 1w2 as approachable and friendly.
The extent to which this applies depends on the strength of their wing.
4. Routine and More Routine
As mentioned earlier, ENFJs like to plan. This gets worse with the ENFJ 1w2. They become somewhat obsessed with getting things done on time and in detail.
This can be a good thing, as ENFJ 1w2s are more likely to be successful because of this trait. Of course, this also means they will be a bit rigid. It’s a fair trade-off.
5. Better with Finances
ENFJs might not be bad with finances. However, ENFJ 1w2s still blow them out of the water. Here’s why. Type 1 is very particular about their finances. Creating budgets and sticking to them is what they do for fun.
I have also noticed that some ENFJ 1w2s are really good at maths. While their wing is more open to giving, the presence of type 1 ensures that any financial gifts from them are reasonable.
6. Principled/Healthy Boundaries
ENFJs are protagonists, and type 2 is often in search of external validation. Yet, the doggedness of type 1 shines through in the ENFJ 1w2.
Thus, they cannot be easily manipulated or cajoled. ENFJ 1w2s often look and behave light years ahead of their actual age.
This makes them seem trustworthy and reliable.
New Weaknesses of the ENFJ 1w2
1. Self-Critical
Self-criticism is something that plagues all type 1s. ENFJ 1w2s are not left out. Their high standards can make them feel inadequate when they fail.
The problem here is that these standards are often unrealistic. ENFJ 1w2s need to realize that there will be times when they won’t meet their set standards, and that’s okay. We’re imperfect, after all.
2. Intense
ENFJ 1w2s are quite intense in a not-too-obvious way. They are intense over things they care about. They want it to be absolutely perfect.
For example, ENFJ 1w2s can be very particular when it comes to assignments and discussions.
They might not comment in class if they feel their answer is not perfect or close to perfect. Their intensity can set them apart from the crowd.
3. They’ve Got Quite the Temper
Type 1 is known for their temper. ENFJ 1w2s are the same. While some might learn to control this anger, others won’t.
ENFJ 1w2s might not express their anger because of ENFJ’s diplomatic tendencies. However, the anger is nevertheless present in their hearts.
4. Tendency to Have an Overly Structured Life
With routine, self-disciplined, and healthy boundaries often comes an overly structured life. ENFJ 1w2s will have reminders for everything and will be specific about what they wear or eat.
The only time when they might let loose is when they are in growth mode. During this time, they might look and behave like a type 7.
ENFJ 1w2 Female- Being Unique is the New Normal
ENFJ 1w2 females are an interesting bunch. Here are some traits that might be more pronounced in an ENFJ 1w2 female.
1. More Likely to Stand Out
ENFJ 1w2 females often stand out from the crowd and other females. They often seem more intense and focused. At first glance, they might even seem unapproachable.
ENFJ 1w2 females often have a lot of acquaintances but few friends. They also cannot stand people who don’t put in the work.
2. More Likely to Be Interested in Academics
It makes sense that ENFJ 1w2 might be interested in academics. This is because academics are the perfect way to test their perfection.
This might be even more dominant in the ENFJ 1w2 females. We live in a world where females are more proactive about education. ENFJ 1w2 females might focus on academics a bit more than their male counterparts.
3. Might Feel Different
Because of their intensity and need for perfection, ENFJ 1w2s might feel different and unique. There’s not a lot of people who can keep up with type 1’s intensity.
For ENFJ 1w2 females, they might struggle to connect with others on a deeper level.
ENFJ 1w2 in Love/Compatibility
Thinking of dating or marrying an ENFJ 1w2? Here are some things worth knowing.
1. Love Languages
This refers to the way people prefer to give and receive love. ENFJ 1w2s have quality time and words of affirmation among their top three love languages. Some might also prefer physical touch.
Regardless of their general preferences, you should make your partner take the test to know exactly what they like.
It takes two to tango. Thus, knowing their love languages is the first step in the right direction.
2. Compatibility
ENFJ’s natural partners are the INFP and ISFP. Type 1s get along well with types 1, 2, 4, 5, 6, and 9. Thus, there are a lot of combinations that can work.
While this is true, any two personality types can have a good relationship if both parties are mature.
3. Understand Their Excesses
ENFJ 1w2s will need a lot of reassurance. Some times, this reassurance will be because of their self-criticism. Other times, they just need to know that you think they’re amazing.
If you are dating an ENFJ 1w2, don’t hold back when telling them how you feel. Your comments will spur on to achieve even greater things.
Comments From an ENFJ 1w2
So, I asked a friend who’s an ENFJ 1w2 to say a bit about what it feels like being an ENFJ 1w2. As you’d expect from an ENFJ 1w2, she wrote a detailed account for me!
As much as I would like to sit here and tell you (the readers) that I know myself like the back of my hand, I would be flat-out lying to you. I was asked by the owner/creator of this website Personality Hunt, Ejike Umesi, to give you a deep dive into the personality of an ENFJ 1w2. My goal is that by the end of this reading, you will have an understanding of the good, the bad, and the ugly.
I have ALWAYS been the person everyone goes to for advice or just a shoulder to cry on. I grew up learning how to treat others with respect. My grade 4 teacher taught me the Golden Rule, “treat others the way you want to be treated,” and I will forever live by that rule. I taught myself the meaning of perseverance and what it means to truly be there for YOURSELF when you need it most. COVID-19 was a big topic and still is, many people fell down the rabbit hole (guilty as charged) and are still trying to bring themselves back to their usual selves. That is currently me in a nutshell. COVID-19 was the downfall of my mental health. I was going into my second semester of grade 10 in 2020 when quarantine and the coronavirus was announced. At first, like everyone else, I was ecstatic. Two-week extra long break!! Woot – Woot!! Who wouldn’t be excited, but those two weeks eventually turned into two years of being stuck at home doing online school and scrolling through TikTok because there wasn’t much else I could do.
My mental health took a turn for the worse, I forgot who I was. I developed an ED and my anxiety was at the highest of all highs. I was really hard on myself for those two years and blamed myself a lot for what was happening even though it was completely out of my control. The one thing I did learn is that reading, writing, and yoga are great and easy ways to calm the mind and body. As an ENFJ, I learned that I will put others first before myself, but if COVID-19 taught me anything it’s that putting yourself first is not being selfish, it’s being caring and protective.
On a lighter note, I am the most energetic and outgoing person you will ever meet. I love being around my friends and becoming a totally different person. When you first meet me, I give off the energy of being a quiet and soft-spoken individual who goes with the flow of what others want to do. Yes, I am all of those, but once you get to know me, I am a completely different person. I will talk your ear off on subjects I deem important, I am super active and will try any new sport even if I think I won’t enjoy it. I LOVE staying active. It is one quality of myself that will never change. I play a handful of different sports. Soccer, Tennis, Volleyball, Martial Arts, and Rock Climbing (just to name a few). Take rock climbing for example. I began rock climbing in February of 2023 and I thought I would hate it, but turns out it is now my favorite pastime and I do it 2-3 times a week, depending on my schedule. If you couldn’t already guess, I am currently still in school, but this time around, it’s college, not highschool.
School comes first and foremost in my day to day life. I am constantly doing assignments and trying to hold honour role while balancing life and what it throws at me. I enjoy helping others. I love English and Math, so whenever my friends had a question, I would spend as much time as they needed for me to help them understand the assignment or question. I do not take my grades lightly. I strive to be at the top. I want the highest grades in every class and my work is completed accordingly. I believe that grades are representative of the person you are and who you want to become. 70% won’t cut it for me personally, but that is an amazing mark for others. To achieve this status, I keep myself very organized. I have a whiteboard in my room with the dates and timelines of when a project needs to be submitted so I won’t fall behind. Failing is not an option in my books, and I encourage it not to be in yours.
I am a passionate and affectionate person when it comes to the relationships I build. As I said previously, I can make friends easily, but once they test my respect and worth, you lose me. I HATE confrontation of any kind. It is not my cup of tea, especially drama and rumors. If my friends or someone I care about are being accused or hurt, I will step up and defend them, and I don’t care if that makes you uncomfortable. However, if my friend is in the wrong, I will tell them to their face and help them see it from my perspective. I am not always right when it comes to relationships because it’s not something I have truly experienced, but I do enjoy living through others and giving advice when they ask for it. My friends and family are the most important to me. If we haven’t spoken in years, but you reach out because you need someone to talk to, I am here for you. Same goes for the friends I have made recently, even though we have only known each other for a few months, if you need me for anything I will be there in a heartbeat.
ENFJ 1w2 in the Workplace
ENFJs are natural leaders. Thus, they often excel in managerial roles. Because they are diplomats, people often find it easier to work with them.
This is similar to ENFJ 1w2s. The only difference is that they can become very nitpicky. This might make people feel intimidated or cause them to withdraw. ENFJ 1w2s excel at most things and are reliable/consistent.
Give them a clear structure and a leadership position to get the best out of the ENFJ 1w2.
Best Careers for the ENFJ 1w2
- Judge
- Attorney
- Doctor
- Executive
- Diplomat
- Arbitrator
- Mediator
- HR Co-ordinator
- Professor
- High School Teacher
- Auditor
- Accountant
- Financial Analyst
- Digital Marketer
- Blogger
- Clergy
Worst Careers for the ENFJ 1w2
- Bartender
- Electrical Engineer
- Mechanic Engineer
- Pre-school teacher
Famous People/Fictional/Anime Characters That Might Be ENFJ 1w2
- Judy Hopps (Zootopia)
- Mitsumi Iwakura (Skip to Loafer)
- Minato Namikaze (Naruto)
- Princess Celestia (My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic)
- Shaiapouf (Hunter x Hunter)
- Nina Fortner (Monster)
- Mufasa (The Lion King)
- Leo Hamato (Teen Mutants Ninja Turtles)
- Lily Evans Potter (Harrry Potter)
- Nilce Moretto
