I had a friend in college who was an ENFJ 3w2. He was everything you think he’ll be. Great with everyone, top of the class, and very fashionable. However, there is more about the ENFJ 3w2 you should know about.
In this article, we’ll talk about who the ENFJ 3w2 is and what you can expect from them.
Who is the ENFJ 3w2?
These are very energetic people. They want to be at the top of everything they try out. ENFJ 3w2s have an insatiable appetite for success. They also have a clear path they want to take to get there. You are also bound to see some flashes of their wing.
Type 3 is one of the more common combinations with ENFJs. However, it still changes some of the traits of the ENFJ 3w2. Trying to spot an ENFJ 3w2? Look for people who are immensely popular, overextend themselves and teach others for fun.
ENFJ 3w2s are assertive ENFJs. It will be hard to find an exception.
What is the Core Desire of the ENFJ 3w2?
The core desire of the ENFJ 3w2 is to be successful and be seen as successful. To achieve this, ENFJ 3w2s pull out all the stops to make this happen.
What is the Core Fear of the ENFJ 3w2?
The core fear of the ENFJ 3w2 is to fail or to be seen as a failure. They don’t want to be seen as just another average person in the crowd.
To combat this fear, they will do all they can to stand out. Yes, even if this means being deceitful.
How the 3w2 Changes Some of the Natural Tendencies of the ENFJ
1. Work Ethic
Work ethic is interwoven with type 3s. So, it’s not a surprise that it’s on full display here. ENFJ 3w2s will have a crazy work ethic. It will be worse because they combine their own projects with helping others.
The “helping others” part can be very strong if they have a strong wing. So, to keep up, their work ethic goes through the roof. They might keep late nights and take work on planned vacations and time with family.
ENFJ 3w2s are always in the mix.
2. More Drive
This follows their work ethic. ENFJ 3w2s set real goals for themselves. This is their path to being successful. So, they go hard on it. They become invested and committed to this path. So, anything that’s needed to achieve their goals will be done.
Their drive can probably only be compared to 8w7 combinations. Because of their drive, people will want to be around them. It can be very motivating and inspiring.
3. Better Fashion Sense
The need to be seen as successful extends to how they look. Thus, their tertiary function which is extroverted sensing (Se) is heightened. They are more conscious of fashionable and beautiful clothes.
Thus, you can expect ENFJ 3w2s to sound and look the part. This will make them popular.
4. More Charismatic
ENFJs are nicknamed the protagonists. This is often down to their charisma. This factor is heightened with ENFJ 3w2s. They have an even stronger extroverted feeling (Fe) function. This allows them to understand people on a higher level.
Backed up by their drive to succeed, their charisma knows no bound. You are sure to notice them in a room just by their words or how they carry themselves.
5. Ambition First Before Helping Others
Because their wing is type 2, they will want to be helpful. They will love teaching and giving their time freely. Usually, this will come without monetary gifts. However, here’s the main difference between the ENFJ 3w2 and the ENFJ 2w3– ENFJ 3w2 will not do not this at the expense of their ambition.
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Their need to be successful and meet their targets will always come first.
New Weaknesses of the ENFJ 3w2
1. The Struggle For Identity
The need to be at the top at all costs usually comes at a price. For the ENFJ 3w2s, it might mean losing themselves. ENFJ 3w2s are blessed with the supernatural power of Fe.
So, they can become whoever they want to be for whatever purpose. This personality type can get caught up playing this actor game that they forget their values and what they really stand for.
If you’re an ENFJ 3w2, it’s important to take time out to think about who you really are.
2. Self-Image Matters the Most to Them
Type 3 and type 2 are both in the shame triad. Thus, their self-appearance is important to them. ENFJ 3w2 embodies this. They will fight to keep their self-image intact even though it requires doing silly things.
In worst-case scenarios, they can lose the people who really love them because of their obsession with their self-image.
3. Chronic Workaholics
We stated earlier that ENFJ 3w2s have an incredible work ethic. This naturally makes them workaholics. For them, their career comes first. They want to reach the very pinnacle and be seen as a leader.
Part of their ascension involves helping others too. They usually have no time to rest. Because they are popular, they might also go to all the parties and social gatherings.
This can and will take a toll on their health.
4. Need for External Validation
ENFJ 3w2s want people to acknowledge their successes. They want to be successful and show it off to the world. When people don’t seem to care, they no longer see those successes in the same light.
So, they seek more to gain external validation. This can lead them on a wild goose chase. They need to understand that the best form of validation comes from within.
ENFJ 3w2 in the Workplace
ENFJs are leaders, managers, and influencers. They are always ready to give their best. They work best when the job or career continuously challenges them and has career progression.
They also want a clear line of hierarchy. The same also applies to ENFJ 3w2s. They can work anywhere that has financial rewards and prestige. Wherever they find themselves, they will fight to get to the top.
Best Careers for the ENFJ 3w2
- HR Manager
Worse Careers for the ENFJ 3w2
- Taxi driver
- Security guard
Fictional/Famous Characters that are ENFJ 3w2
- Jayce Talis
- Margaery Tyrell (Game of Thrones)
- Meghan Markle
- Hans Westergaard (Frozen)
- Oprah Winfrey
- Justin Trudeau
- Derek Shepherd (Grey’s Anatomy)