ESFJs are charismatic people who get along with most people because of their selfless sacrifices. However, ESFJ 8w7 is more contentious.

This article discusses the ESFJ 8w7 and what you can expect from them.

Who is the ESFJ 8w7?

ESFJ 8w7s are ESFJs on steroids. They seem to have it all together; people love them, they are determined, and they usually have firm boundaries. In a way, their health might be the biggest loser because of their exertions.

Because of their wing, this personality type also knows how to have fun. They enjoy life and seem to adapt to any situation. However, the stronger their wing, the more cracks start to appear in their seemingly driven life.

Type 8 is not the most popular enneagram type for ESFJs. That title goes to type 2. Thus, the presence of 8w7 changes some typical traits of the ESFJ, as we shall soon see.

ESFJ 8w7s are more likely to be assertive than turbulent.

What is the Core Desire of the ESFJ 8w7?

The core desire of the ESFJ 8w7 is to be in control. They seek control in their lives, relationships, and personal commitments.

To achieve this, this personality type will always seek to put in their best effort.

What is the Core Fear of the ESFJ 8w7?

The core fear of the ESFJ 8w7 is being betrayed or left vulnerable by others’ antics. To prevent this, they tend to create their own circle and resources.

They also look out for their allies.

How the 8w7 Changes Some of the Natural Tendencies of the ESFJ

1.   More Extroverted

ESFJs are extroverts, while ESFJ 8w7s are slightly more extroverted. They tend to have the explosive, confrontational spirit of type 8s, so they might be louder without even realizing it.

The presence of their wing means they also want to have a good time. Good time here usually involves spending time outdoors or with others.

2.   More Entrepreneurial

ESFJs are often perceived as popular or charismatic. It’s not that they suck at being entrepreneurs. It’s just not a core part of who they are.

ESFJ 8w7s are different. They enjoy controlling their own destiny. Thus, managing their business is an option. This is further enhanced by their man management skills. In other words, people usually feel comfortable working with them.

3.   More Ambitious

The presence of type 8 makes the ESFJ more dogged, determined, and ambitious. They are more inclined to pursue their goals and be decisive.

These are qualities that eventually help them go to the next level. Their ambition is often backed by their adaptability. In a way, ESFJ 8w7s are like types 3 and 8 wrapped in one.

4.   Less People-Pleasing

ESFJs are the masters of people-pleasing. They often want to make everyone happy. ESFJ 8w7s are different. While they might resort to people-pleasing to achieve their goals, they are more resistant to it.

Thus, this personality type finds it relatively easier to set healthy boundaries.

5.   More Daring

ESFJs are not cowards. They are often not afraid to take charge or lead out of selflessness. However, their daring nature goes into overdrive when they are ESFJ 8w7s.

They become somewhat fearless, at least on the surface area. Their daring nature can make them seem intimidating or dogged.

While this is true, the presence of their wing (type 7) means that there’s still fear underneath their posture. They just find ways to distract themselves.

6.   More Assertive

ESFJs are assertive and one of the most extroverted types. ESFJ 8w7s take this to another level. They are confrontational and tend to face a matter headlong.

Their assertiveness can make them respected or hated. If they are unhealthy, things can get really nasty.

Weaknesses of the ESFJ 8w7

1.   Anger+Fear

Type 8 is in the anger triad, and type 7 is in the fear triad. As mentioned earlier, they are very confrontational. This is due to type 8’s need to confront any issue in their lives, and they do this with a high level of aggression and anger.

The presence of type 7 means they can ignore problems when they are overwhelmed. Picking a vice or addiction is a good way to achieve this.

2.   Work Hard, Party Hard

ESFJs are hard workers, Type 8s are dogged and determined, and Type 7s are the kings of fun. This combination means that ESFJ 8w7s are very busy people. They know how to put in a shift and party hard.

Thus, they almost never take a break. This can have a negative impact on their health.

3.   Less Sensitive

ESFJ 8w7s are less sensitive than typical ESFJs. While this has its perks, it’s also a weakness. Their emotional intelligence is a super power for ESFJs. When they lose some of that, they become stuck in the middle.

This leaves them unsure about their identity. It can also make others perceive them as dodgy or volatile.

4.   Competitive Streaks

Like most type 8s, ESFJ 8w7s will have a competitive streak. They will dig in when necessary and are always ready for a challenge. The difference between ESFJ 8w7 and ENTJ 8w7 is the emotions.

In other words, competition with the ESFJ is more emotional. Thus, they can have emotional outbursts or rages during this period. Because they are ESFJs, this usually happens in private.

ESFJ 8w7 in Love/Compatibility

Are you dating or married to an ESFJ 8w7? Here are some things you should know

1.   Compatibility

ESFJ’s natural MBTI partners are the INFP and ISFP. Type 8 is compatible with types 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, and 9.

Thus, there are a lot of options on the table. Nevertheless, any two mature persons can make a relationship work.

2.   Love Languages

This refers to how people prefer to give and receive love. ESFJ 8w7 will list acts of service and gift-giving among their top three love languages.

The presence of type 8 reduces the need for words of affirmation. Thus, focus more on doing things for your partner. Of course, the most accurate way of knowing their love language is by taking the official test.

3.   Stand Your Ground When Needed

Like most type 8s, ESFJ 8w7s like a good challenge. However, this type 8 is also a bit more emotional.

Thus, when dating an ESFJ 8w7, stand your ground when you need to. However, the timing is important. It might not be a great idea to do so when they are emotionally charged.

It never ends well.

4.   Be Supportive

ESFJ 8w7s will experience a rollercoaster throughout their lives. They will take risks and fight for their dreams and targets.

If you are dating an ESFJ 8w7, you have to be supportive. This does not necessarily mean not voicing your opinions. You just need to be there for them in the way they want. For example, an ESFJ 8w7 that prefers physical touch won’t feel supported if you show them support through words of affirmation.

It’s just not what they want.

ESFJ 8w7 in the Workplace

ESFJs want to work with their hearts on their sleeves. Jobs that involve some form of customer service come naturally to them. They want to see concrete results for their efforts and work.

ESFJ 8w7s are similar. They also want some control over where and how they work. For example, they will want a say in their working hours. They also value career progression.

Make sure their role has some human interaction to get the best out of the ESFJ 8w7.

Best Careers for the ESFJ 8w7

• Diplomat
• Ambassador
• Financial Analyst
• Actor/Actress
• Professor
• Blogger
• Freelancer
• Politician
• Nurse
• Doctor
• Pharmacy

Worst Careers for the ESFJ 8w7

• Software engineer
• Data analyst
• Computer programming
• Surgeon
• Librarian

Famous People/Fictional/Anime Characters that Might be ESFJ 8w7

• Hiromi Higa (Shadow)
• Fujibayashi Kyou (Clannad)
• Kara Zor-el (DC Comics)
• Estelle Costanza (Seinfield)
• Wu Jing
• Shin Subin (Till Debt Do Us Part)
• Amelia Craft (Tomb Raider)
• Alicia Spinnet (Harry Potter)
• Daniela (In the Heights)
• Chantay Black (Degrassi)
• Rico Brown (Hot Rod)
• Kurumi Imari (Bible Black)