ESFPs bring so much energy, charisma, and life to any environment. The ESFP 8w9 does this and more.

Want to learn more about the ESFP 8w9? This article discusses who they are and what you can expect from them.

Who is the ESFP 8w9?

ESFP 8w9s are strong-willed with an introspective side. This personality type yearns to control their life and decisions. They often ooze charisma effortlessly and are goal-oriented. While this is true, their personality is less shouty when compared to typical ESFPs.

Because of their wing, ESFP 8w9s seek calm and inner harmony. They avoid conflict when they can and might refrain from confrontation unless sought out.

Type 8 is not a common type for ESFPs. However, it does make a lot of sense. The extroverted sensing (Se) function is strongly correlated to type 8, as explained by Naranjo.

While this is true, the presence of type 9 ensures that the typical traits of an ESFP are altered.

ESFP 8w9s are slightly more likely to be assertive than turbulent.

What is the Core Desire of the ESFP 8w9?

The core desire of the ESFP 8w9 is to be in control. They also yearn to protect their loved ones or “their people”.

What is the Core Fear of the ESFP 8w9?

Like most type 8s, the core fear of the ESFP 8w9 is to be betrayed. They fear losing control of their lives because of betrayal or some unforeseen event.

Simply put, control is very important to them.

How the 8w9 Changes the Natural Tendencies of the ESFP

1.   More Introverted

Make no mistake. ESFPs are super extroverts. They derive energy from socializing and being in the middle of social events. ESFP 8w9s are different. While they are still extroverts, they have periods where they want to be alone.

This is mostly driven by their wing’s need to enjoy life free from disruption. Being an ESFP is the epitome of disruption. The extent to which this applies depends on the strength of their wing.

2.   More Disciplined

ESFPs are perceivers. Thus, self-discipline and consistency can be a problem. ESFP 8w9s are much more disciplined. They know what they want and are able to keep the course right to the end.

While this is true, ESFP 8w9s have a lot of warring contradictions. For example, type 9 will want to take breaks in between tasks. Thus, while ESFP 8w9s will achieve their goals, it will be at a slower pace.

3.   Slightly Less Impulsive

One of the reasons why they remain disciplined is because of a decrease in their recklessness. Thus, ESFP 8w9s are more thoughtful and will think carefully about their decisions.

This comes with some pros. ESFP 8w9s will make better decisions. People might also see them as more reliable. However, this comes at a cost, as we shall soon see.

4.   More Goal-Oriented

Type 8 is very goal-oriented. Thus, it’s not a surprise that this features in ESFP 8w9s. They have goals and usually achieve them. Because ESFPs lead with the extroverted sensing function, these goals are usually geared toward their physical environment.

For example, ESFP 8w9s will have goals relating to fitness, cooking, sports, and much more.

5.   Less Attention-Seeking

Admit it. ESFPs love the limelight, and that’s okay. ESFP 8w9s also love it but to a lesser degree. This is because of their wing. Type 9’s need to isolate or live a peaceful life makes them slightly less attention-seeking than typical ESFPs.

This has its cons. ESFP 8w9s can strike a balance better and easier.

6.   More Family-Oriented

With less attention-seeking tendencies, ESFP 8w9s have a better grasp of their family life. This is further enhanced by their need to protect their loved ones. While ESFP 8w9s are not as explosive as ESFP 8w7s, things can get really spicy when their loved ones are threatened.

New Weaknesses of the ESFP 8w9

1.   Anger Issues

Types 8 and 9 are both in the anger triad. Thus, ESFP 8w9s will have anger issues. When they feel angry, there’s a tendency to confront the source of anger. Other times, there’s a tendency to suppress their anger and resolve the issue tactfully.

In the majority of the cases, confrontational anger wins because this is how type 8s prefer to handle issues.

Either way, ESFP 8w9s are very volatile.

2.   Bouts of Indecisiveness

The presence of type 9 means that ESFP 8w9s will sometimes struggle with indecision. They will try to reach a decision that makes everyone happy. However, because their wing drives this desire, it is often reserved for their loved ones.

While this can be frustrating, it allows them to make better decisions as mentioned above.

When dealing with strangers, this personality type will make quick decisions.

3.   Prone to Hasty Decisions

While ESFP 8w9s are more careful, hasty decisions still reign supreme. This is especially obvious when they feel slighted or get angry.

During this period, ESFP 8w9s can make life-altering decisions or take actions that can permanently damage their relationships.

4.   Vengeful

As mentioned earlier, type 9 prefers to suppress anger. What this does is build up that anger without letting the culprit know.

Thus, ESFP 8w9s can become vengeful or resentful over time. This might make them more ruthless or cold towards others.

The presence of their introverted feeling function also means they can be really stubborn.

ESFP 8w9 in Love/Compatibility

Are you dating or married to an ESFP 8w9? Here are some things you can expect.

1.   Love Languages

This refers to the way a person prefers to give and receive love. ESFP 8w9s usually enjoy acts of service and gift-giving. In some cases, physical touch makes an appearance.

So, give them the most thoughtful gifts you can find. While this is true, everyone is different. The only way to know your partner’s love language is by asking them.

2.   Compatibility

ESFP’s natural partners in the MBTI are the ISFJ and ISTJ. In Socionics, their dual partner is the INTJ. Type 8 is compatible with types 2, 3, 5, 6, 7, 8, and 9.

Thus, ESFP 8w9s have a lot of options on the table. Regardless of this, any two mature persons can make a relationship work.

3.   Don’t Try to Change Them

ESFP 8w9s have big personalities. You probably noticed this before deciding to date or marry them. Never try to change them. Now, this does not mean you shouldn’t address negative traits.

Just don’t attack their personality. It never ends well.

4.   Settle for a Chaotic But Rewarding Relationship

ESFPs are adventurous, wild, and risk-takers. ESFP 8w9s are the same. So, prepare to be entertained in your relationship. From the experiments in the bedroom to taking a walk in the park, ESFP 8w9s will have something up their sleeves.

It’ll be memorable.

ESFP 8w9 in the Workplace

ESFPs want a career that requires them to be hands-on. Just like their lives, they want to be in the stick of the drama/action. If the job requires using their five senses, even better.

ESFP 8w9s are the same. They excel at managerial roles and often climb up the career ladder quickly. ESFP 8w9s prefer in-person work environments to remote work.

Ensure their roles require some hands-on action and give them flexibility to get the best out of the ESFP 8w9.

Best Careers for the ESFP 8w9

• Fitness Trainer
• Athlete
• Economist
• Chef
• Photographer
• Executive
• Fashion Designer
• Artist
• Musician
• Actor/Actress
• Blogger
• Freelancer
• Social Media Influencer

Worst Careers for the ESFP 8w9

• Auditor
• Judge
• Surgeon
• Software Engineer
• Pre-school teacher

Famous People/Fictional/Anime Characters that Might Be ESFP 8w9

• Jennifer Walters (She-Hulk: Attorney at Law)
• S.Coups
• Percy Jackson (Percy Jackson and the Olympians)
• Marty Hart (True Detective)
• Barret Wallace (Final Fantasy VII)
• Kevin Wachtell (Better Call Saul)
• Asura (Onmyoji)
• The Wolf (Bullet Train)
• Damianos of Akielos (Captive Prince)
• Blake Griffin
• Lafayette Reynolds (True Blood)
• Darius Kincaid (The Hitman’s Bodyguard)