ESTP 9w8 is the exception to the rule. This personality type has honed the weaknesses of the ESTP and is the complete package. There’s more.

This article discusses the ESTP 9w8 and what you can expect from them.

Who is the ESTP 9w8?

ESTP 9w8s are calm people with a lot of grit and determination. This personality type seeks inner peace first when faced with any situation. While this is true, it’s significantly harder for ESTP 9w8 to keep the peace.

This is because the combination of type 8 (wing) and ESTP ensures that they are always on the verge of conflict. Type 9 is a less common type for ESTPs. However, this is not an impossible combo.

Nevertheless, the presence of type 9 as their dominant type means there are major alterations to the typical traits of the ESTP.

ESTP 9w8s are more likely to be turbulent.

What is the Core Desire of the ESTP 9w8?

The core desire of the ESTP 9w8 is to have inner harmony or peace. However, the road to that point is especially challenging for this personality type.

What is the Core Fear of the ESTP 9w8?

The core fear of the ESTP 9w8 is always being in some form of conflict. To prevent this, ESTP 9w8 will usually proceed with a peaceful resolution.

How the 9w8 Changes Some Natural Tendencies of the ESTP

1.   Less Aggressive

ESTPs are an aggressive bunch. They are often strong and mentally resilient. ESTP 9w8s are a bit different. They are less aggressive. This is often because of their first instinct to avoid conflict (strange for an ESTP).

While this is true, their aggression still pours through when they have had enough. ESTP 9w8s are often respected because people know they are unpredictable.

2.   More Diplomatic

This follows the last point. Their high level of aggression is replaced by diplomacy. ESTP 9w8s are great negotiators. They know how to combine aggression and tactfulness to perfection.

This has its pros. First, it gives them more career options. ESTP 9w8s make good ambassadors, diplomats, or public relations officers.

3.   Less Extroverted

ESTPs are super extroverts. ESTP 9w8s are introverted extroverts, but only just. This is because type 9 is really chill (more on that later). They don’t want their routine or harmony disrupted.

Thus, this personality type might spend more time alone than typical ESTPs.

4.   Lower Work Ethic

With the need to be calmer comes a lower work ethic. This does not mean that they won’t work hard. It just won’t be up to the levels of a typical ESTP.

Thus, ESTP 9w8s will most likely have a better work-life balance. This will have a profound effect on their health.

5.   More Sensitive

ESTPs are thinkers. This means they prefer to approach situations logically. This changes slightly with the ESTP 9w8. Because they are usually looking to avoid conflicts, they try to be understanding of people’s emotions.

Thus, they are more sensitive but not necessarily emotional.

6.   More Laid Back

As mentioned earlier, ESTP 9w8s are generally calmer. This translates to a more laid-back lifestyle. For example, ESTP 9w8s will put less emphasis on fitness, sports, or their careers.

It’s important to note that being laid back as an ESTP can be the equivalent of being active for other types, such as the INFJ.

New Weaknesses of the ESTP 9w8

1.   Anger Issues

Types 9 and 8 are in the anger triad. Type 9 likes to repress anger, while type 8 confronts it. This has sad consequences for the ESTP 9w8. They can keep their frustrations in check until they’ve had enough.

Once they’ve had enough, they usually explode. When this happens, they can look very scary.

2.   More Complacent

Because they are type 9s, ESTP 9w8 will aim to have a chill life. This comes with some level of complacency.

Thus, ESTP 9w8s will have discipline issues. This is further enhanced by their perceiving function. Their wing, if strong enough, can reduce their complacency levels.

3.   More Indecisive

ESTP 9w8s are prone to indecision. Here’s why. Type 9 is interested in keeping the peace. Thus, they often pick a choice that’s okay with everyone. This can take a lot of time, and in some situations, it’s even impossible.

Thus, ESTP 9w8s will appear indecisive to others because of how long they take to make simple decisions.

4.   Tendency to Ignore Problems

It all comes down to type 9 again. Because of their fear of conflict, they can choose to ignore their problems. This is also true of ESTP 9w8. However, ESTP 9w8s are still ESTPs.

So, they will eventually confront this problem. Everything just moves a bit slower when compared with a typical ESTP.

ESTP 9w8 Females- The Ultimate Balance

1.   Complete Package

ESTP 9w8s females are just the complete package. They can do almost anything they want. They are tactful yet firm. ESTP 9w8 females know exactly who they are but can make compromises when needed.

The sky’s the limit.

2.   Nurturing with Healthy Boundaries

This follows the last point. ESTP 9w8s are nurturing thanks to type 9’s tendency to be understanding. Thus, people often feel understood when talking to the ESTP 9w8 female.

While this is true, ESTP 9w8 females still have healthy boundaries. They are resistant to manipulation and will assert themselves when necessary.

3.   Logical with an Emotional Touch

ESTP 9w8 females remain logical thanks to their MBTI type. However, they will have a more sensitive touch to them. Thus, their aggression is less evident unless triggered.

This makes the ESTP 9w8 female very balanced.

4.   Almost All Careers Are Open to Them

Just like the ESTP 8w9 female, most careers are open to the ESTP 9w8 female. They’ll do well in male-dominated careers, as well as careers that require some form of conflict resolution.

Simply put, they have options!

ESTP 9w8 in Love/Compatibility

Are you married or thinking of dating an ESTP 9w8? Here are some things you should know

1.   Compatibility

In the MBTI, ESTPs are most compatible with the ISTJ and ISFJ. In Socionics, they are most compatible with the INFJ. Type 9 is most compatible with almost any Enneagram type. Thus, there are a lot of combinations that can work.

While this is true, any two persons with the right attitude can make a relationship work.

2.   Love Languages

This refers to the way we prefer to give and receive love. Physical touch and quality are the top two love languages for the ESTP 9w8.

So, don’t be scared to get touchy with your ESTP 9w8 while spending time with them. They’ll love it.

3.   Conflict-Averse

ESTP 9w8s try to avoid conflict whenever they can. If you’re dating them, don’t be surprised if they try to avoid confronting their problems.

The best way to approach this situation is by exercising patience. Because of their wing and MBTI type, they’ll address their problems before it gets too bad.

The worst thing you can do is try to nag them. It won’t end well.

4.   Communication Style

ESTP 9w8s are fluent in both tactful and blunt speech. Thus, it’s easy to get along with them in a relationship. Because of their desire to avoid conflict, they’ll usually lead with tactfulness. However, when they are comfortable with you, you’ll see the other side of their personality.

If you love them, I’m sure you’ll find it fascinating.

ESTP 9w8 in the Workplace

ESTPs value a workplace that offers flexibility. These are people who can put in a shift for you and your business. This is true also with the ESTP 9w8.

They also excel at working with others and are often great leaders. Because of their wing, ESTP 9w8s are often great negotiators. This trait makes them a useful asset in any organization.

Ensure they have flexibility when working to get the best out of the ESTP 9w8.

Best Careers for the ESTP 9w8

• HR Manager
• Diplomat
• Arbitrator
• Counselor
• Clergy
• Entrepreneur
• Blogger
• Fitness Trainer
• Therapist
• Professor
• High School Teacher

Worst Careers for the ESTP 9w8

• Compliance Officer
• Judge
• Entertainer
• UX Designer

Famous People/Fictional/Anime Characters That Might Be ESTP 9w8

• Denji (Chainsaw Man)
• Jack Frost (Rise of the Guardians)
• David Martinez (Cyberpunk Edgerunner)
• Nick Dunne (Gone Girl)
• Daniel Desario (Freaks and Geeks)
• Victor Sully (Uncharted Series)
• Matt LeBlanc
• Hwang Hae-Tee (Youth of May)
• Max Dennison (Hocus Pocus)
• Frankie Watterson (The Amazing World of Gumball)