INFJs can be quite mysterious. The situation gets more intriguing when the enneagram of personality is also considered. Such is the case of the INFJ 4w3.
In this article, we’ll look at who the INFJ 4w3 is and what you can expect of them.
Who is the INFJ 4w3?
INFJ 4w3s are people who crave uniqueness with a touch of ambition. They want to stand out among the crowd for their unique qualities. This personality type is introverted and extremely creative. This is backed up by streaks of ambition that ultimately push them to succeed.
Type 4 is a common enneagram type for the INFJ. However, INFJ 4w5s are more common than INFJ 4w3s. The presence of type 3 as a wing changes some of the typical traits of the INFJ as we shall soon see.
INFJ 4w3 is more likely to be assertive.
What is the Core Desire of the INFJ 4w3?
The core desire of the INFJ 4w3 is to be unique. They want to stand out and be different. To achieve this, they use their creative skills and talents to create a distinction with others.
What is the Core Fear of the INFJ 4w3?
The core fear of the INFJ 4w3 is to be ordinary or average. They are terrified of being seen as just another average tom.
Thus, they’ll work hard to hone their skills or career. They might also be really good at other things such as fashion.
How the 4w3 Changes Some of the Natural Tendencies of the INFJ
1. More Extroverted
INFJs are extroverted introverts. This means they prefer to have more time alone. They spend this time on their hobbies and in their heads. INFJ 4w3s will be a bit different.
While they will still need this time alone, they will be more extroverted. This is down to their wing. Their extroverted feeling (Fe) function becomes more pronounced. Type 3 also wants to put themselves out there.
Because of this, INFJ 4w3 might spend a little more time networking. This is one of the reasons why people mistype them as ENFJs.
2. More Ambitious
Type 3 is very ambitious. They are driven to succeed and want to climb the ladder at all costs. INFJ 4w3s will have some of these inclinations.
They will be more ambitious and driven in their goals. This personality type might also be more concerned about having money. This goes against the belief that INFJs are not interested in their finances.
The extent to which this applies depends on the strength of their wing.
3. More Persuasive
As earlier stated, type 3s are more interested in networking. They want to take advantage of any opportunity they might find.
INFJ 4w3s are similar. Backed by their Fe, they will know just the right tone and energy to put into a conversation. Depending on how strong their wing is, they can become very persuasive as they mature.
4. Better Work Ethic
INFJs are notorious for having low energy levels. This usually affects their work ethic and their ability to grind out results. Not this INFJ.
INFJ 4w3s are more driven and have a better work ethic. This attribute comes from their wing. So, if their wing is weak, expect to see a lot of complacency with bouts of determination.
5. More Action-related
Type 3 is all about the action and we see it in this personality type. INFJs are usually accused of spending a lot of time in their head. So, while they might have brilliant ideas, they never come around to making it a reality.
With INFJ 4w3, you get someone who is more action-oriented. So, even when their wing is not strong, they can get more things done when compared to the INFJ 4w5.
New Weaknesses of the INFJ 4w3
Type 4 is known for this particular weakness. There is a tendency to start feeling special. This might make the INFJ feel like everything happens to them for a reason. They might feel blessed or targeted by others.
This self-centered feeling might make them appear selfish and unreliable. They might also become so fixated on their issues or blessings that they forget people also have their issues.
It’s a problem INFJ 4w3s also struggle with.
2. Struggle with Self-Identity
Type 4 is all about the quest to find themselves. Type 3 is more concerned about being whoever they need to be to achieve their goal. What this creates is an individual who struggles with both cravings.
Thus, they never make full progress on both fronts. This might make them feel unsatisfied with their lives.
3. A Bit Too Competitive
If their wing is strong, it’s easy for INFJ 4w3s to be competitive. Type 3 wants to be the best. They want to be leaders. If something stands in their way, they’ll fight to even be better.
When their wing is strong, this tendency will become even more pronounced. When the INFJ 4w3 is in this mood, bettering their actions is difficult.
4. External Validation vs Independence
Type 3 wants people to see them as successful. Type 4 couldn’t care less and just wants their freedom. This creates someone who struggles with wanting appreciation and still needing their independence.
They want acclaim but struggle with pleasing others. They are still stubborn about their ideals and beliefs. As you can already guess, this is a big hindrance to their inclinations. However, INFJ 4w3s are dominantly type 4.
Thus, their need for independence comes first.
INFJ 4w3 in the Workplace
INFJs want a career path that’s creative, challenging, and well-defined. INFJ 4w3s are similar. They also want a career path that’s progressive and encourages growth. INFJ 4w3s want to be unique. So, if their careers afford them this opportunity, even better.
The role of actor, musician, or entertainer might especially appeal to them. These roles allow them to display their creativity and uniqueness. It also provides a clear career path. It’s especially appealing because they get external validation with a chance to remain independent.
Whether that works out is up for debate.
Best Careers for the INFJ 4w3
- HR Manager
- Graphic Designer
Worst Careers for the INFJ 4w3
- Compliance Officer
- Law Enforcement
- Personal assistant
- Security guard
Famous/Fictional Characters that are INFJ 4w3
- Benedict Cumberbatch
- River Pheonix
- Manny Delgado (Modern Family)
- Nicole Kidman
- Michael Langdon (American horror story)
- Marie Jones (Malcolm and Marie)
- Loki (Comic Book)
- Agnes Nielsen (Dark)