ISFJs are sweet, kind, and caring. When compared with the enneagram of personality, a fair chunk identifies as the ISFJ 2w1.
This article discusses the ISFJ 2w1 and what you can expect from them.
ISFJ 2w1 are caring people who want to do what’s right. This personality type tries to be helpful in any way possible. They support their friends and want to be relevant in their group.
Because of their wing, they are also interested in doing things the right way. This can lead to a struggle between their wing and their dominant type.
Type 2 is a common type for ISFJs. However, the presence of their wing still distorts some of the typical traits of the ISFJ.
ISFJ 2w1s have an equal chance of being assertive or turbulent.
The core desire of the ISFJ 2w1 is to be loved and considered useful. They want the glowing admiration of everyone.
The core fear of the ISFJ 2w1 is to be dispensable. They fear being abandoned or replaced by their friends.
ISFJs are known to be sweet and caring. ISFJ 2w1s take this to another level. They become extra caring.
To some personality types, this might be amazing. To others, their caring nature might seem a bit overbearing.
However, one thing is sure; their caring nature is backed up with action. They can move mountains for their friends.
Because of their wing, ISFJ 2w1s will strive to do things perfectly. This makes them more reliable and efficient.
However, it also has its drawbacks. Because their wing drives their need to be perfect, they will never achieve the standards they set for themselves.
This can be hard to accept.
ISFJs care a lot about norms and culture. ISFJ 2w1s care about this and more. They care about morals and what is socially acceptable.
They are also usually religious. The problem again is that their wing drives this. So, while they might set high standards for themselves, they might never reach them.
This follows the point about caring. ISFJ 2w1s genuinely want to help others. They want their friends to be happy.
Thus, they will do anything they can to help. This might mean spending their money or taking on more tasks.
While it can take a toll on them, it makes them happy.
Type 2 is interested in helping others. Type 1 is interested in doing the right thing. Thus, you get someone interested in charity and fighting for others.
Humanitarian campaigns are a perfect way for them to express themselves. Missionary work, counseling, and being a religious leader might also be appealing.
As stated earlier, ISFJ 2w1s struggle to meet their expectations of perfectionism. So, when they fail, it hits them hard.
They become self-critical about themselves.
ISFJ 2w1s might also feel superior to others. This can make them critical of others.
Type 2 is in the shame triad while type 1 is in the anger triad. Thus, ISFJ 2w1s want people to like them. This helps them feel secure and loved.
When this does not happen, they can lash out at themselves and think something is wrong with them.
This can destroy their self-confidence.
This follows the last point. The need to be liked naturally translates to validation. ISFJ 2w1s want their efforts to be recognized. Now, this is not a bad thing. However, the issue is what happens if they don’t get this recognition.
This personality type might get cranky or jealous. In worst-case scenarios, they can become manipulative and vengeful. It usually doesn’t end well.
ISFJ 2w1s want to be liked. This makes them natural people-pleasers. However, the presence of their wing negates this to an extent.
Thus, this personality type will draw boundaries around immoral or unethical issues. While this is true, their boundaries will not be so strong. Living up to their set standards is often a losing battle.
The extent to which this applies depends on the strength of their wing.
ISFJs want a career that allows them to help others. They enjoy practical work that brings results. ISFJ 2w1s work best when they have a defined role and hierarchy.
ISFJ 2w1s are the same. In addition, they prefer jobs that appeal to their humanitarian side. This type might prefer the traditional working style (9-5).
To get the best out of the ISFJ 2w1, ensure their role is well-defined and helpful. It might also be a good idea to acknowledge their efforts.
- High school teacher
- Teacher’s Aide
- Social Worker
- Financial Analyst
- Marge Simpson (The Simpsons)
- Henry Cavill
- Clark Kent (DC Comics)
- Catelyn Stark (Game of Thrones)
- Anastasia Steele (Fifty Shades of Grey)
- Natalie Dyer
- Mother Theresa
- Andy Clark (The Breakfast Club)
- Phyllis Lapin (The Office)