ISFJs are warm, sensitive, and nurturing. When compared with the Enneagram of personality, some identify as the ISFJ 9w8.

This article discusses the ISFJ 9w8 and what you can expect from them.

Who is the ISFJ 9w8?

ISFJ 9w8s are calm people with clear boundaries. They go with the vibe and are usually hospitable. While this is true, their values are crystal clear to them, thanks to their wings. They also have greater consistency and can handle more disruptions in their lives.

Because of their wing, they might seem more disciplined and even assertive.

Type 9 is a popular type for ISFJs. This is because some of its traits complement the traits of the ISFJ. However, the presence of type 8 as a wing distorts some typical traits of the ISFJ, as we shall soon see.

ISFJ 9w8s are slightly more likely to be turbulent.

What is the Core Desire of the ISFJ 9w8?

The core desire of the ISFJ 9w8 is to be at peace. However, there’s a twist. They go to less extent for peace than other type 9s. In other words, there’s a limit to their quest for peace.

Push them too hard, and they’ll push back. You won’t like it when they do.

What is the Core Fear of the ISFJ 9w8?

The core fear of the ISFJ 9w8 is to be in constant disharmony. In other words, while they can handle more disruptions in life, there’s a limit to their disharmony.

While this is true, this doesn’t necessarily mean they’ll yield to pressure. They might just cut the problem off.

How the 9w8 Changes the Natural Tendencies of the ISFJ

1.   More Outgoing

ISFJs are introverts. This simply means they recharge by spending time alone. ISFJ 9w8s are slightly different. Because they are type 9s, they talk a lot more and might have higher social batteries.

One reason could be type 9’s need to avoid conflict. In other words, ISFJ 9w8s might engage in small talk to preserve harmony. However, because of their wing, this will have a limit.

Nevertheless, ISFJ 9w8s are still ISFJs. They remain introverts.

2.   Healthier Boundaries

ISFJs often struggle with maintaining healthy boundaries. People-pleasing is a constant struggle. ISFJ 9w8s are still people-pleasers. However, it’s to a much lower level.

This is down to the presence of their wing. Type 8 is a sucker for control. Pleasing people is the opposite of that. Thus, the stronger their wings, the more likely ISFJ 9w8s are to resist control and set healthy boundaries.

3.   More Goal-Oriented

Type 8 is as goal-oriented as it gets. Thus, if their wing is strong, ISFJ 9w8s become more ambitious and goal-oriented. They will be ruthless with their targets and will often be more successful than typical ISFJs.

While this is true, they will never hit the levels of a core type 8.

4.   More Tactful with an Edge

ISFJs are kind and caring. They prefer to look for peaceful solutions to any conflict they face. ISFJ 9w8s are the same with a twist. While they are tactful when dealing with people, they retain a tough edge.

They are often prepared to walk away from resolutions if they feel a solution is unjust or not in their favor. Thus, people usually perceive them as tough negotiators.

5.   A Tad Less Emotional

ISFJs are feelers. This means that their decisions are usually based on emotions. This ISFJ is slightly different, thanks to their wing. They become less emotional. This emotion is often replaced with a sense of ruthlessness or indifference.

While this is true, ISFJ 9w8s remain feelers at heart. They just have better control over it.

6.   Slightly Higher Energy Levels

The need to achieve their goals often increases the energy level of the ISFJ 9w8. This personality type often has more energy in every aspect of their lives.

This has its pros. First, ISFJ 9w8s will be successful. They will also be seen as more reliable, which can have a positive impact on their careers.

New Weaknesses of the ISFJ 9w8

1.   Anger Issues

Types 9 and 8 are both in the anger triad. Type 9 tends to suppress their anger, while type 8 confronts it. Thus, ISFJ 9w8s will usually look to avoid conflict when they can.

However, when they have had enough, they will push back. When this happens, they become a different beast.

Things can get really heated.

2.   Indecisiveness

Type 9’s indecisiveness also shows up in the ISFJ 9w8s. This personality type will have trouble making a choice over even the simplest things. The reason why they struggle is still linked to a need to avoid conflict.

They are often afraid of rocking the boat with their choices. While this is true, the presence of their wing reduces the extent to which this applies.

3.   A Lot of Stubbornness

As mentioned earlier, type 9 tends to suppress their anger. However, being controlled is not something they look forward to. Thus, ISFJ 9w8s, buoyed by their wing, will resist being controlled.

One way they do this is by being passive-aggressive. Silent treatment, ignoring, and rigidity are just some of the signs that they are not going to budge.

4.   Streaks of Complacency

While ISFJ 9w8s will be more ambitious and goal-oriented, complacency will also be present, thanks to type 9. So, this personality type will have long periods where they go missing in action.

When this happens, their loved ones might think they’re depressed or sad. However, they really just want to chill and relax. During this period, their efficiency and ruthlessness go out the window.

ISFJ 9w8 in Love/Compatibility

Are you dating or married to an ISFJ 9w8? If you are, here are some things you should know.

1.   Love Languages

This refers to the way people give and receive love. ISFJ 9w8s will have words of affirmation and quality time among their top three love languages.

So, if you are dating an ISFJ 9w8, don’t hesitate to spend time with them and reassure them with kind words.

Being blunt will just not work.

2.   Compatibility

ISFJ’s natural partners in the MBTI are the ESTP and ISTJ. Type 9 is compatible with all Enneagram types. Thus, ISFJ 9w8s have a lot of options on the table.

While this is true, any two mature persons can make a relationship work.

3.   Support Them

Dating a type 9 means being ready to support them through trying times. Support here refers to emotional and mental support.

ISFJ 9w8s will need a lot of reassurance. Sometimes, they probably won’t ask for it. So, make sure you reassure them when they feel discouraged.

They’ll love you even more.

4.   Respect their Boundaries

While ISFJ 9w8s are ready to make compromises, they have a limit to how much they can endure. So, respect their boundaries. By doing so, you show them you care and respect them as a partner.

It doesn’t get better than that.

ISFJ 9w8 in the Workplace

ISFJs put their hearts into their careers. Their caring and detailed personality allows them to work in a host of industries. ISFJ 9w8s are the same. They also crave human interactions in their jobs.

Their careers should be challenging and push them to be better. While this is true, they want a career that gives them work-life balance. Working long hours constantly is not for them.

Ensure their role comes with flexible hours to get the best out of the ISFJ 9w8.

Best Careers for the ISFJ 9w8

• Nurse
• Doctor
• Pharmacist
• Professor
• Writer
• Editor
• Auditor
• Librarian
• Counselor
• Therapist
• Mediator
• Arbitrator
• Public Relations Officer

Worst Careers for the ISFJ 9w8

• Judge
• Attorney
• Entrepreneur
• Executive

Famous People/Fictional/Anime Characters that Might Be ISFJ 9w8

• Elizabeth Olsen
• Willow Park (The Owl House)
• Yuzuha Shiba (Toyko Revengers)
• Adam (The Bible)
• Yang Jeongin
• Andre Harris (Victorious)
• Bruce Willis
• Aaron Samuels (Mean Girls)
• Brock (Pokeman)
• Jerry Baynard (Anne with an E)
• Li Huan (Here u Are)
• Cleveland Brown (Family Guy)
• Bob Duncan (Good Luck Charlie)
• Treebeard (The Lord of the Rings)