ISTJs are tough commanders. They preserve tradition and keep the rules intact. They have a special place in the world we live in. While this is true, not all ISTJs are the same. For example, the ISTJ 3w2 is everything you never thought the ISTJ could be.

Would you like to know more about them? If you do, you’re in the right place. This article discusses the ISTJ 3w2 and what you can expect from them.

Who is the ISTJ 3w2?

ISTJ 3w2s are ambitious people with a helpful side. There’s a significant shift in the personality of ISTJs here. I believe INTJs and ISTJs are the most stoic personalities in the MBTI. ISTJ 3w2s are different. There’s more wriggle room for them.

Because of their wing, they are also more outgoing, helpful, and perhaps generous. While this is true, they retain some traits, such as healthy boundaries and decisiveness. This makes them a force to be reckoned with.

Type 3 is not the most common enneagram type for ISTJs. That title goes to type 1. Thus, the presence of type 3 and its wing changes some typical traits of the ISTJ, as we shall soon see.

ISTJ 3w2s are more likely to be assertive than turbulent.

What is the Core Desire of the ISTJ 3w2?

The core desire of the ISTJ 3w2 is to be successful and to look the part. They want the recognition of being successful and are their best when admired by others.

What is the Core Fear of the ISTJ 3w2?

The core fear of the ISTJ 3w2 is to be a failure or look the part. Thus, they pay special attention to their dress and general first impression.

How the 3w2 Changes Some of the Natural Tendencies of the ISTJ

1.   More Outgoing

ISTJs are super introverts. They crave alone time as this is the best way to recharge their batteries. ISTJ 3w2s are slightly different. Type 3 allows them to be more outgoing and social.

Thus, they often have great communication skills. People seem more at ease with them than other typical ISTJs. Add their fashion sense/aura, and they become the real deal.

2.   More Flexible

ISTJs are often very rigid. Here’s why. Their introverted sensing function often sticks to what it knows. Thus, ISTJs are not very good at trying out new things.

Combine this with an inferior Fi function; you have a very principled person. ISTJ 3w2s are different. While they maintain their skepticism towards innovation, they are more adaptable to people’s whims.

They might even try out new ideas if the idea promises benefits regardless of an overall loss. For example, a new idea that allows them to bond with a potential high-end customer will be appealing.

3.   More Charming

This follows the last point. ISTJ 3w2s have a better grasp of being appealing to people. This is truly one type that can keep a good facade when it matters the most.

While this is true, ISTJ 3w2s know exactly what they want. They also set really clear boundaries like typical ISTJs.

The only difference is that these boundaries can be broken when the deal is right.

4.   Different Motivations for Fashion

Typical ISTJs have a good sense of fashion. ISTJ 3w2s are the same or even better. However, their motivations are completely different.

While typical ISTJs do this as part of their approach to life and planning, ISTJ 3w2s do this with a need to impress.

Thus, they might look the same but think very differently.

5.   More Ambitious

Type 3 is one ambitious type. They have goals and strive to reach them. They want to reach the peak of their careers. That is the only way to be successful in their opinion. ISTJ 3w2s will be exactly like that.

Because they are ISTJs, it becomes even easier for them to achieve this. Well-developed ISTJs have a laser focus on their goals and the efficiency to carry them out.

6.   More Helpful

The presence of their wing also plays a role. Because ISTJ 3w2s are more charming, people perceive them as more friendly.

Thus, they are approached more often for help. Type 2 allows ISTJs to render this help. However, they will never put helping others first because it’s just their wing.

It just won’t work.

New Weaknesses of the ISTJ 3w2

1.   The Presence of the Shame Triad

Types 2 and 3 are both in the shame triad. Thus, ISTJ 3w2s will have issues dealing with situations that cause them some form of embarrassment or shame. Because they are type 3s, they are more likely to deny that this emotion exists.

This singular act can lead to several other issues, as we shall soon see.

2.   Problem of Self-Validation

Types 3 and 2 go hard on external validation. In other words, they rely on the recognition of others to affirm their helpfulness or success.

The problem is people have their lives and motivations. Thus, people are not always around to tell them what they want to hear.

So, when the external validation does not come, it can wreck their self-confidence. ISTJ 3w2s might feel like failures. Their knee-jerk reaction becomes “fake it until you make it.” This is true even if they are actually already successful

3.   Mild to Moderate People-Pleasers

The presence of both Enneagram types will see them develop people-pleasing tendencies. While this is true, they will never let it get so bad because they are ISTJs.

Simply put, their people-pleasing tendencies will be reserved for rewarding circumstances.

4.   Little or No Touch With Emotions

The impact of denying how they feel, plus ISTJ’s insensitivity, means that ISTJ 3w2s will struggle to accept their emotions.

They might deny its existence or pretend to be tougher than they are. If you’re an ISTJ 3w2, know that there’s nothing wrong with being emotional.

Just don’t let it completely control your choices.

ISTJ 3w2 in Love/Compatibility

1.   Compatibility

ISTJ’s natural partners in the MBTI are ESFP and ESTP. In Socionics, this is the ENFP. Type 3 is compatible with types 2, 5, 8, 9, and 7.

Thus, ISTJ 3w2s have a lot of options on the table. While this is true, any two mature persons can make a relationship work.

2.   Love Languages

ISTJ 3w2s prefer words of affirmation, acts of service, and physical touch in that order. Typical ISTJs would prefer acts of service. However, the need for external validation means this personality type would feel loved when their partner affirms their abilities.

While this is true, people are different. The only way to know your partner’s true love language is to take the official test.

3.   Subtle Reassurances

This follows the point of words of affirmation. While they need this, ISTJ 3w2s often don’t want to seem vulnerable.

Thus, those reassurances should be subtle but obvious. For example, reassure them at a time when they achieve something important. In other words, ensure it’s genuine.

4.   Show Them You Love Their Authentic Selves

ISTJ 3w2s probably grew up thinking that people would love them for their achievements. If you are dating an ISTJ 3w2, show them you love them regardless of their achievements.

Show them you love them even when things come crumbling down. They’ll never leave your side.

ISTJ 3w2 in the Workplace

ISTJs are monstrous workers. They put in a shift when needed and are very reliable. They prefer career paths that allow for immediate concrete results for their efforts.

This is the same for ISTJ 3w2s. They also want to see some career progressions and human interactions in their jobs. ISTJ 3w2s can adapt quickly to any workplace setting.

Ensure their role gives them stability to get the best out of the ISTJ 3w2.

Best Careers for the ISTJ 3w2

• Entrepreneur
• Executive
• Financial Manager
• HR Manager
• Attorney
• Surgeon
• Nurse
• Professor
• Scientist
• Politician
• Actor/Actress
• Sales Representative
• Customer Service Specialist

Worst Careers for the ISTJ 3w2

• Bartender
• Librarian
• Secretary
• Administrative Staff (Little or no career progression)

Famous People/Fictional/Anime Characters that Might Be ISTJ 3w2

• Amy Santiago (Brooklyn Nine-Nine)
• Christopher McKay (Euphoria)
• Karen Filippelli (The Office)
• Martha Jones (Doctor Who)
• Mr. Collins (Pride and Prejudice)
• Farshad Silent
• Tim Cook
• Walter Hobbs (Elf)
• Katrina Bennett (Suits)
• Calder Kerian (Vast Error)
• Hitoya Amaguni (Hypnosis Mic)
• Isadora Vera
• Ivan Ilyich (The Death of Ivan Ilyich)